02 November 2010

Not 100% Please......

Every woman in this world loves their men and every wife loves their husbands. It's a simple fact nobody can deny. But then, I honestly feels that there should be a limit to the degree of love they had for their partners.

Essentially, too much of everything is bad. It might sound irony but the fact is that, this single sentence applies to a lot of things in our life - which also includes love & feelings. Personally, I think women in particular, should never give their 100% devotion to their husbands. They should have keep some to themselves - knowing the kind of men we had these days.

Take it this way - human themselves are not 100% perfect. So, why in the world should we trust them 100% too? C'mon get real, do you even trust yourself? Giving too much trust or love to somebody can open the door to hurt and heartbreak. Dont give them all - allow some space for failure and everything else that goes with it. Life is not always a bed of roses.

I may sound a little jaded, but I have learned my lesson in trust the hard way. People don't always say what they mean or mean what they say. Therefore, it's always best to have some sort of an insurance policy against the disappointment of someone breaking your trust. It's so hard to earn it back once it's completely gone, so it's wise not to completely give it to anybody.

My point here is, don’t allow yourself to be completely dependent upon someone else, whether it’s financially or emotionally. Nobody can guarantee that the sky can forever stays blue. Always be sure that if the relationship were to end, you could stand on your own two feet, rather than falling on your backside. Make your own money & never to lose touch with friends. Be sure you have a support system. Don’t make one person your entire universe, coz when he leaves, then your universe will collapse.

Last but not least, dont put all your eggs in one basket. Only God is worthy of 100% trust.


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